Thoughtful, practical writing for families navigating dementia—one clear idea at a time. Understand why dementia changes the person you love, and what to do about it.
After submitting the manuscript for my upcoming book, Better Dementia, I spent time planting a wildflower garden. What I discovered among the native grasses and flowering perennials reminded me of one of the most important lessons I teach families: dementia care works best when we align with the person rather than expect the person to adapt to us.
There is a moment in dementia caregiving when everything begins to feel different. It is not loud or dramatic—it is quiet, steady, and grounded in understanding. This is the moment I know a caregiver is going to be okay.
Dr. Balfour Mount, the father of palliative care in North America, transformed how we approach serious illness and end of life. His legacy lives on in my work in comprehensive dementia care, which is rooted in the same principles of dignity, comfort, and family-centered support.
